Lisa Kitter
Is It Time To Reinvent Yourself?
“If you’re going to stick around in this business, you have to have the ability to reinvent yourself, whether consciously or unconsciously.” ~ D. Quaid.
I would ask you to think about reinventing yourself beginning right now! How do you reinvent yourself? You begin today to take a good look within at your true self. The “you” that even you may have forgotten all about!
While pursuing your fitness, professional and personal goals you will discover many things about yourself and you will unearth many of your so called, “short comings.” Instead of focusing on those qualities you may not like about yourself, I’m suggesting that you reinvent you! Go within and look for the many gifts you possess…gifts you may have long since forgotten about or you may have even down played those gifts because they made you unique. Perhaps feeling unique made you uncomfortable or caused you to be ridiculed and laughed at or teased by others.
Well, guess what… today is your day to shine! Today as you begin to communicate with people in your family, community or even in your professional life I would like you to be who you truly desire to be! Have you always wished you were a better communicator? Today you are instantly a better communicator because you’re making a new decision about your communication skills! Today you are an excellent communicator and people really understand what you’re saying and sharing with them.
As you’re connecting with others, imagine that you have the gift of gab! You know exactly what to say and when to say it. You’re eloquent and articulate, you have a style of communicating that causes people to sit up and take notice. They pay attention to you, as never before, in a nutshell, when you speak, people listen!
Have you been shy in the past? No more are you shy. Today is your day to step way out of your comfort zone and be heard! This is your life and you believe in yourself and you know you have something special to offer others. You’re the leader they have been dreaming of meeting, the one person who can and will show them a better way of life, a life worth living. Suddenly you are no longer shy; you’re a powerful, magnetic and charismatic person that gains attention and followers wherever you go!
This is your moment in history and your time to be whatever and whomever you choose!
Reinventing yourself is easy, it’s fun and best of all…it can be profitable! When you decide to be the, “you” that you have always desired to be, you automatically become more appealing to others. For one thing, you’re authentic and believable. Stepping into your personal power is quite possibly the one outstanding gift you can do for yourself and to yourself for immediate success! Sounds easy because it is easy. It’s a conscious choice, a decision only you can make. Playing small will not serve you in this world. Why not decide to let go of the insecurities and old, outdated, “not good enough” recordings going on in your head? Today is your day to feel good, and to shine with that newfound healthy self-esteem!
Becoming healthier and making a new commitment to live life to the fullest is an opportunity for you to take on the leadership role, to be an example of what is possible when a new choice or choices are made. You get to be someone that others desire to align with in business and in life. This is a great time for you to shed the old you and step into the new, improved you! The real you!
Relax, have fun and reinvent yourself for success!
REINVENTING YOURSELF EXERCISE
If I weren’t afraid I would be more ___________________________________________________________
Today is my new beginning and I will no longer fear
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The qualities I most admire in myself are ____________________________
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I feel most confidant and self assured when I am wearing _______________
_____________________________________________________________
And when I am doing____________________________________________
________________________________________________________And
When I am being _____________________________________________
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The last time I can remember feeling really powerful was when I was______
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I will reinvent myself today and from now on I am ___________________
____________________________________________________________.
No matter what happens today I choose to feel _____________________
About myself!
The person I most admire is ____________________ because he/she is _________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________.
“My happiness, my health and my life are my responsibility and I am more than capable and a powerful person!”
Join Lisa every Monday at 2:00 pm (Eastern Time) for 30 minutes of learning, empowerment & fun on her “Power Up With Lisa” live radio talk show.
Lisa’s special guest are women, just like you, and they have each accomplished balance, harmony, financial profits and peace of mind, while doing the work they love!
You won’t want to miss a single show but if you do…all of Lisa’s power up radio shows are archived and available for easy playback 24 hours per day.
I’d love to hear your thoughts. So please share your comments below in the comment box for our community.
I look forward to sharing again with you very soon. By the way, if you haven’t find out why you deserve to own The Smart Girl’s Guide To Home Business Success. Click here to find out more.
Until we meet again – I believe in you!
How To Reinvent Yourself by Lisa Kitter
I would ask you to think about reinventing yourself beginning right now!
How do you reinvent yourself?
You begin today to take a good look within at your true self.
The “you” that even you may have forgotten all about!
While pursuing your fitness, professional and personal goals you will discover many things about yourself and you will unearth many of your so called, “short comings.”
Instead of focusing on those qualities you may not like about yourself, I’m suggesting that you reinvent you!
Go within and look for the many gifts you possess…gifts you may have long since forgotten about or you may have even down played those gifts because they made you unique.
Perhaps feeling unique made you uncomfortable or caused you to be ridiculed and laughed at or teased by others.
Well, guess what… today is your day to shine! Today as you begin to communicate with people in your family, community or even in your professional life I would like you to be who you truly desire to be!
Have you always wished you were a better communicator?
Today you are instantly a better communicator because you’re making a new decision about your communication skills!
Today you are an excellent communicator and people really understand what you’re saying and sharing with them.
As you’re connecting with others, imagine that you have the gift of gab! You know exactly what to say and when to say it.
You’re eloquent and articulate, you have a style of communicating that causes people to sit up and take notice. They pay attention to you, as never before, in a nutshell, when you speak, people listen!
Have you been shy in the past? No more are you shy.
Today is your day to step way out of your comfort zone and be heard! This is your life and you believe in yourself and you know you have something special to offer others.
You’re the leader they have been dreaming of meeting, the one person who can and will show them a better way of life, a life worth living.
Suddenly you are no longer shy; you’re a powerful, magnetic and charismatic person that gains attention and followers wherever you go!
This is your moment in history and your time to be whatever and whomever you choose!
Reinventing yourself is easy, it’s fun and best of all…it can be profitable! When you decide to be the, “you” that you have always desired to be, you automatically become more appealing to others.
For one thing, you’re authentic and believable. Stepping into your personal power is quite possibly the one outstanding gift you can do for yourself and to yourself for immediate success! Sounds easy because it is easy.
It’s a conscious choice, a decision only you can make. Playing small will not serve you in this world. Why not decide to let go of the insecurities and old, outdated, “not good enough” recordings going on in your head?
Today is your day to feel good, and to shine with that newfound healthy self-esteem!
Becoming healthier and making a new commitment to live life to the fullest is an opportunity for you to take on the leadership role, to be an example of what is possible when a new choice or choices are made.
You get to be someone that others desire to align with in business and in life. This is a great time for you to shed the old you and step into the new, improved you! The real you!
Relax, have fun and reinvent yourself for success!
REINVENTING YOURSELF EXERCISE
If I weren’t afraid I would be more _________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
Today is my new beginning and I will no longer fear
_____________________________________________________________
The qualities I most admire in myself are ____________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
I feel most confidant and self assured when I am wearing _______________
_____________________________________________________________
And when I am doing____________________________________________
________________________________________________________And
When I am being _____________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________.
The last time I can remember feeling really powerful was when I was______
_____________________________________________________________
I will reinvent myself today and from now on I am ___________________
____________________________________________________________.
No matter what happens today I choose to feel _____________________
About myself!
The person I most admire is ____________________ because he/she is _________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________.
“My happiness, my health and my life are my responsibility and I am more than capable and a powerful person!”
Join Lisa every Monday at 2:00 pm (Eastern Time) for 30 minutes of learning, empowerment & fun on her “Power Up With Lisa” live radio talk show.
Lisa’s special guest are women, just like you, and they have each accomplished balance, harmony, financial profits and peace of mind, while doing the work they love!
You won’t want to miss a single show but if you do…all of Lisa’s power up radio shows are archived and available for easy playback 24 hours per day.
I’d love to hear your thoughts. So please share your comments below in the comment box for our community.
I look forward to sharing again with you very soon. By the way, if you haven’t find out why you deserve to own The Smart Girl’s Guide To Home Business Success. Click here to find out more.
Until we meet again – I believe in you!
Love Thyself By Lisa Kitter
“Love is the foundation of truth one can always rely upon.” Lisa Kitter
Trust and intention are the first ingredients necessary for manifesting your hearts desires. Loosely translated the word DESIRE does mean, “of the Father” or “of the light.” When you have a heart felt and sincere desire to accomplish, obtain or achieve, you are literally tapping into that side of yourself (the spiritual side) linked directly with ALL of creation.
Trusting is the quiet knowing that comes with belief that a force, greater than you, is at work to assist you with manifesting your most desired creation. You’re naturally trusting by nature however circumstances, education and environment can cause you to become distrustful of everything and everyone. It requires a tenacious attitude and a conscious effort to remember to trust once again. With trust, comes risk and with risk comes rewards.
When you trust and all turns out as you had planned, it’s a wonderful experience of success for you to attach yourself. When you trust and things don’t work out the exact way you had planned them, then it’s a new kind of trust that must be called upon. This level of trust is a level of knowing that all that happens is for your “highest good” and for more spiritual soul growth so there can be no bad to come of the situation or of the experience.
There is no such thing as good or bad, everything is simply an experience. Our beliefs, ego, feelings and impressions are what cause the situation to appear to be positive or negative. Your souls deepest desire is to experience every aspect of, “being.” The soul knows that by “being” it is “knowing of the human experience.” Knowing can only be gained by and through experience.
On the soul level, it is all bliss because all experience is a better understanding of the “being” occurrence; Otherwise known as the “human experience on planet earth.” The highly evolved Master understands that it (the life experience) can all be bliss, if we take it as an opportunity to remember and to grow by and to “become” more.
At our highest level of being, we know that love is the basis for all of life, in this Universe and far beyond. Love is the foundation of truth one can always rely upon. True, pure love can never be taken away or damaged or lost, in any way. Love at the highest level is so pure, so giving, so safe and secure that no other experience can compare to the unconditional love your soul remembers itself to be. You can be “in love” every moment of every day…not with someone else but with yourself!
“Be in love” and see if everything goes better in your life. Be in love with you, all of you, physically, emotionally and spiritually! To be in love with oneself, is the greatest gift of ALL.
To experience personal love, acceptance and understanding is so very powerful and fulfilling; This is a place and space which allows us to completely be ourselves undefined, yet so clearly refined and at center, center being peace within and peace with all of mankind.
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7 Steps of Clarity for Building Your Home-Based Business
Clarity about your Business is absolutely essential to increase your results and ensure your business success. Today we are going to go through the 7 Steps of Clarity for Building Your Home-Based Business.
1) Develop You: Many new entrepreneurs will begin to study their business model, become immersed in product ingredients and the compensation plan, all of which is very important however those things are NOT as important as your personal development. Improve you and everything related to your business will improve as well. Become a better person by plugging into self improvement books, audios and videos. Strive to improve your ways of thinking, acting and being.
2) Increase your prosperity consciousness: Money is available to you, me, everyone and it is constantly circulating and changing hands by the minute. Begin believing that there is a bundle of money out there waiting for you, visualize it, mentally feel its effect on you and develop an emotional connection with your soon-to-be increased finances. If you have become accustomed to struggling then “believing” money is easy to come by, may be difficult initially.
Keep at it and keep believing in your abundance. Watch for clues, signs and leads of prosperity; see a penny? Pick it up, take a moment and thank the divine for your financial windfall – a penny is a hint of the coming attraction! Always think increase and do your best to squash thoughts and talk of lack.
3) Set Your Intentions: “You get what you expect” so expect good things to come to you every single day. Expect your business to succeed and set your intention to achieve! Have a target (daily, weekly, monthly and yearly) and strive to hit it with every bit of enthusiasm you have within you. Don’t settle, excel! Keep mentally and physically reaching for the best out of yourself. Whatever you expect to happen is determined by the thoughts you focus upon in addition to the intensity of the emotions behind those thoughts.
4) Create Better Opportunities: Take the time to meet new people, go to new places and see new things; change your perspective as often as possible. Prosperous, successful people place themselves in situations that enable them to be noticed and surrounded by the “right people.” Make connections with people whom are moving in the same direction as you, in other words, their moving forward in life! Network and connect with prosperous, business-minded, influential people. Reach out on the social media sites, check out networking events in your local area and attend Chamber of Commerce mixers often. Become visible as much as possible, shine your light and make some new mutually-beneficial contacts.
5) Remember to Stay Focused: Distractions are all over the place and they can disguise themselves as priorities so it’s important for you to develop the skills for determining the difference between the two. A priority is a “must do” because it will effect some major aspect of your life and a distraction is a nuisance, something you “feel” you have to address immediately but could probably wait because it isn’t going to impact your life much come tomorrow.
Be a priority manager and avoid the distractions or at the very least, learn to recognize them for what they really are; time wasters, thieves of your dreams and goals! When you learn to focus on the “task at hand,” and become diligent about how and where you spend your time, you will dramatically increase your odds for business success.
6) Own It: This is not only your business but it is your life – YOUR LIFE and I emphasized those words for a reason because you are the shining star of this life series and it’s yours to create for you! Place you first in the daily list of to do’s. Your business, your life and you’re the boss so put your bossy pants on and take control. Don’t defer your personal power to anyone else and when it comes to running your business, unless you have a business partnership of some kind, this is your baby so treat it as such. Make decisions, choices and moves that are best for your business and then best for you. Do what’s best for your business first – take care of your business always and eventually, the business will be in a position to take care of you.
A) Set business hours & stick to them
B) Keep your appointments, no flaking out
C) Don’t buy toys and gadgets before you purchase your business tools & equipment
D) Hire a good accountant or book keeper
E) Delegate household chores & other task in order to free up time for your business
7) Never Give Up: This step seems rather obvious, how can you create business success if you quit the business? I have personally coached, by phone or in person, nearly 2000
People and you may be surprised by how many of those people seriously considered quitting and throwing in the towel and giving up on their entrepreneurial endeavor. When the going gets tough. Your commitment is the key to long-term victory. As a visionary and business owner, in it for the long haul, you commit to the goal and to hitting the target you set for yourself.
It’s going to be tough at times and you’re going to feel discouraged but that doesn’t mean you quit! It simply means you must dig deeper, stay the course, adjust your sails if need be but you don’t quit! For all you know, you could be three feet from gold, and you’ll never reap the re-wards for all of the blood, sweat and tears you already exerted and you certainly won’t know the exhilaration of crossing the finish line if you give up.
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Join Lisa every Monday at 2:00 pm (Eastern Time) for 30 minutes of learning, empowerment & fun on her “Power Up With Lisa” live radio talk show.
Lisa’s special guest are women, just like you, and they have each accomplished balance, harmony, financial profits and peace of mind, while doing the work they love!
You won’t want to miss a single show but if you do…all of Lisa’s power up radio shows are archived and available for easy playback 24 hours per day.
I’d love to hear your thoughts. So please share your comments below in the comment box for our community.
I look forward to sharing again with you very soon. By the way, if you haven’t find out why you deserve to own The Smart Girl’s Guide To Home Business Success. Click here to find out more.
Until we meet again – I believe in you!
7 Simple Tips To Be A Better Contributor
“Acceptance is the first step towards achieving peace of mind, happiness and true prosperity. Accept that you deserve to have all of the abundance the Universe is willing to provide you…give thanks and prepare to receive!” ~ Lisa Kitter
Most people start a home business for the convenience of generating money for themselves from the comfort of their own home. That is definitely a big plus to starting your own business in the wonderful industry of Network Marketing / Direct Sales.
Once introduced to Network Marketing, people find out that there truly is no ceiling on the income potential available. The only ceiling is in direct relation to our thoughts and beliefs about what we can generate.
So with that said, Network Marketing is all about creating a team of like-minded individuals who are looking to improve the quality of their lives by, in most cases, creating financial freedom.
The way to reach your individual financial goals in your own home-based business is to focus on assisting those on your team in reaching their income goals. That’s right! If you focus on assisting those on your team in reaching their goals, you will automatically reach your income goals.
That doesn’t mean that you don’t set income goals for yourself on a weekly or monthly basis. Absolutely do that! What it does mean is your achievement is based on the achievement of others.
You are creating a network of team members who are looking to achieve whatever they’ve set for themselves. You are the leader who is there to guide them toward success.
Notice I said “Guide them to their success.”
You are not in the business of building their business for them, but you are in the business of assisting to point them in the right direction so that they are learning and growing into a duplication of you, which means they are familiar with the process and could do it with or without you.
You are in the business of letting them listen and learn from you as you handle a 3-way call or do a team training session.
Along with focusing on assisting your team members to build their checks, there are other exciting ways and impactful ways to come from a position of contribution, whether talking to team members or anyone else during the course of the day.
Here we go….
7 Simple Tips To Be A Better Contributor
- Smile. Seems like such a little thing, but most people don’t.
- Give compliments.
- Give recognition where due. People love to feel appreciated.
- Be kind.
- Be patient.
- Be encouraging.
- Be the example for others to follow.
Creating profitable results in network marketing is indeed, a team sport!
Have you ever considered ways in which you could be a better contributor within your business and team? What ways have worked the best for you?
I’d love to hear your thoughts. So please share your comments below in the comment box for our community.
I look forward to sharing again with you very soon. By the way, if you haven’t find out why you deserve to own The Smart Girl’s Guide To Home Business Success. Click here to find out more.
Until we meet again – I believe in you!
7 Pick Me Ups Guaranteed To Get You Feeling Empowered Again
Feeling Blue? Today’s share will hopefully have you feeling empowered again.
Let’s get going… it’s time to start feeling inspired, excited, and empowered now.
7 – Pick Me Ups Guaranteed To Get You Feeling Empowered Again!
1) Get up and move! Exercise has been proven to release “feel good” endorphins in our brains, so don’t just sit there – jump rope, take a walk, or go to the gym and sweat, or my personal favorite, hula-hoop for 10 minutes! The point is, movement and motion energize and uplift you mentally and surprisingly enough, physically.
2) Read something positive and inspiring, especially biographies of successful people whom managed to overcome incredible obstacles and still achieved their goals. It helps to know that someone somewhere has been where you are and they got past it and actually flourished because of the challenges.
Here are a couple of suggestions of inspiring women with great stories: Estee Lauder, Mary Kay Ash, Oprah Winfrey, Debbi Fields Rose, JK Rowling and with a little internet research, you will find MANY more.
3) Call or visit a support person or your “Entrepreneur Buddy,” take a break and chat or lunch with someone who understands your goals and is supportive of them. It is so important to have people who believe in you, understand your mission and perhaps, can even identify with the challenges you face being a self-employed woman.
4) Music – Crank It Up! Music with an upbeat tempo and a positive, empowerment message can really lift you out of your doldrums. Dance around, feel the joy of the day and sing along to your favorite song – you’ll be feeling great in no time at all.
5) Remember your WHY. Get re-connected with your reason for being self-employed, review your long term goals and let them inspire you to keep moving forward. Sit down and journal about your feelings, hopes, and dreams and re-visit your “vision board” to get you back on the fast-track of success!
6) Meditate and listen to your inner voice as it guides you back to “center.” Be still, calm and remember to breathe deep, cleansing breaths as you allow the burdens of the day to melt away – its always nice to light a few candles and sit in a warm bubble bath as you relax and melt away your cares.
7) Watch a funny movie and laugh your troubles away! Did you know that laughter really is the best medicine for depression and physical ailments? It’s true; laughter is good for you and just like exercise and it allows good-feeling endorphins to be released into your bloodstream. Take a drive to the local park and watch the children as they laugh and play…you’ll be smiling again in no time!
That just about sums it up! 
So what are your thoughts? Ever felt blue and implemented any of the above steps to feel much better? Are any of these tips new ideas for you? If so, what will you begin to implement when you feel yourself slipping into a ‘blue’ state?
Please share your comments below in the comment box for our community.
I look forward to sharing again with you very soon. By the way, if you haven’t find out why you deserve to own The Smart Girl’s Guide To Home Business Success. Click here to find out more.
Until we meet again – I believe in you!
Okay, I Screwed Up!
“Today is the day of my good, I accept all of the gifts coming to me with open arms and an open heart.” ~Lisa Kitter
Often times in life, we have to make tough choices and difficult decisions and those choices we make ultimately, carve out our future. How many times have you looked back and thought to yourself, “if only I had made a better choice” because you realize the decision you made, way back when, has now effected you in a detrimental way? Of course, we can all identify and as they say…hind site is 20/20.
How can we alleviate costly and painful mistakes? How do we make the “correct” decision in the moment, in order to avoid the agonizing repercussions days, weeks, months and possibly years down the road?
Is the answer to remove the “emotions” from the equation, when making tough decisions?
When emotions are high, tempers tend to flare and many times, reasonable thought processes aren’t taking place because we are in the heat of the moment. So, is it better to take a “clinical” approach to decision making and remove the emotions altogether, is that even possible?
Science has proven that upwards of 95% of all decisions we make, are made emotionally and this decision making, in the moment approach, is directly related to survival and our “fight or flight” responses. This is a huge benefit if you are in the woods and about to be lunch for a hungry grizzly bear but not so beneficial, if you’re attempting to make a decision about your career or a personal relationship issue.
Medical science has also proven that nearly all of us are “poor thinkers” and we make bad decisions, most of the time. Wow, its time for us to better learn how to control our emotions so that we can then make more positive, well-thought out choices and decisions.
After all, we’re talking about potentially altering the course of our lives, our very destiny, and each and every time we make a choice, we’re literally setting the wheels of our fate in motion.
Making mistakes is part of the growing process and sometimes, you make the best decision that your able, in the moment and still it comes back to bite you down the road.
The key is to recognize that you can take all the correct steps to facilitate a good outcome however their will be times when you’ll just have to “roll with the punches” and give yourself an “A” for effort.
Here are a few suggestions to implement to assist you in making better decisions:
- Take a deep breath and count to ten or twenty. How are you feeling? Your body can be an “error free guide” to give you clues as to how you’re handling the situation. Is your heart racing, are your palms sweaty, are you talking loud or perhaps even yelling? Focus on calming yourself prior to making any moves or decisions.
- Gather as many facts as possible, prior to taking action. There’s an old adage, “Emotions cause people to act and logic causes people to think.” The goal is to stay in control and rise above the situation as much as possible, so as to see the “birds-eye perspective.” In other words, think before you act!
- Visualize the outcome you desire to experience. Prior to having the conversation with your boss or loved one, see the conclusion in your minds eye. Weigh your options and follow the vision to the end result. In other words, “if I do this, here’s my outcome but if I do that…the result is this.” Visualize yourself calmly stating the facts, offering your thoughts or feelings and doing so in a calm, matter of fact way.
- Maintain your “emotional posture.” Recognize the feelings of panic or neediness that may crop up for you when decision time comes around. Posture up and maintain your personal power which comes from conjuring up strong feelings of self love, self respect and a confident sense of “self assuredness.” You may have to speak to yourself internally and ask this question, “If I were a busy successful and confident person, what would my decision be?” Think of a person whom you admire, respect and consider a leader then “pretend you are them,” how would they handle this situation, what would they say, how would they respond?
- Make the decision. Indecisiveness is a sure-fire way to invite others to take advantage of you or to possibly even manipulate you and to feed on your emotional instability. When faced with a decision; weigh your options, gather the facts available, take a deep breath and make the best decision possible – the worse thing you can do is avoid making a decision because of fear.
Flexing your “decision making muscles” take practice and it’s something you’ll have to build up and continue to develop over time, until you feel more at ease with yourself and with your new-found abilities to keep emotions in check, while making better choices for your life.
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7 Secrets You Need To Know To Tap Into Your Inner Strength
How do you step into your inner strength? Today we are going to tackle 7 simple steps to help you do just that. I am excited for your breakthrough.
Begin today to not take everything so personally. It’s time to realize that most of that which you are taking personally, isn’t even about you at all!
It’s about the other persona and their beliefs, experiences and habits of behavior.
So…someone treats you in a way that makes you feel as though you’ve been rejected. Is this about you or is it about the other person? If it is about the other person…aren’t they entitled to “feel” or behave any way they choose?
Could you be experiencing a feeling of rejection because that is what you were programmed or trained to feel and couldn’t you choose to believe something different occurred, something other than rejection?
Each person is responsible for his or her own life experience. If you choose to walk around feeling rejected then that is your choice.
What if you decided to interpret your experiences and interactions with other people in a different way? What would happen? Would you be happy and more carefree?
What if instead of deciding that you’ve been rejected, in its place you decide that that other person simply made a decision that was right for them and that you must decide what your interpretation of that decision will be.
Good or bad? Will it be personal or not personal? Will it be about you or about them?
What would make you happiest and would give you a sense of peace and love? To feel rejected or to feel that the individual you’re dealing with has made a decision that is right for them in that particular moment?
Why not opt to be happy and stop taking everything said or done personally?
This subject of taking things personally goes hand in hand with your ingrained beliefs. If you believe that people are attacking you, rejecting you or not loving you or treating you fairly, then you are correct.
You will be sure to experience that belief in order to continue the habit or pattern you have developed.
When you love yourself unconditionally and when you accept the fact that you are indeed perfection in the flesh…you stop taking everything personally.
You begin to accept and love yourself for who you are and you love and accept other people for themselves as well.
Acceptance brings peace and harmony into all situations and it alleviates the feelings of inadequacy. Begin today to practice acceptance.
Inner strength is a prerequisite to complete fulfillment. Notice I did not say physical strength but rather inner strength. To define inner strength I must ask you to seek your soul.
Go deep within yourself and feel the steel, which is there. It is within each of us so don’t despair as to whether you possess inner strength. Know and accept that you have an inner strength that you may not be aware of yet, however it is there.
Inner strength is that special “something” you have deep inside of your very essence. It is that unique quality, which will not allow you to quit, fail or walk away when the going gets tough!
Has there been a time in your life when you felt as though you were fighting an uphill battle?
Did you ever feel as though you desired something so much that you were willing to be uncomfortable, unhappy or temporarily displaced in order to receive the thing you desired?
What caused you to hang on, to stay in the game when times were challenging? It was inner strength that’s what caused you to stay and fight… inner strength.
There will be many times that in your pursuit of complete fulfillment, you must draw on your inner strength. You will have to seek the steel that you hold internally and infinitely.
Inner strength is your connection to your complete and total self, the self that is connected with infinite intelligence and all of life. The self, which is who you really are and always will be…YOU!
7 Secrets To Tapping Into Your Inner Strength:
- Make a decision to achieve, accomplish or obtain your goal.
- Design an achievable and workable game plan
- Include a date or time limit for accomplishment of your goal
- Imagine yourself in possession of your goal (act as if it is so)
- Proceed forward with enthusiasm and faith
- Stay the course even when times are rough
- Decide that quitting is not an option
When good people experience challenges and heartache it’s inner strength that keeps them moving forward in life. Decide today to become a person of strength and make your strength an internal version of the valor you most admire in others.
Your spirit or internal light is a thin string of infinite creation which links you directly with all that is and all that was and all that ever will be. When you become aware of this wonder and indeed recognize the truth in your connection with all knowledge, love and strength…you will know no limits.
What does it mean to know no limits? Exactly that. No limits, not ever. No limited thoughts, no limits to your ability to create, love and accept. There will be no limits to your abilities in any and all endeavors. Powerful and power less at the same time. You will be powerful because there is nothing you cannot have or do or be. You will be power less because you will not require any great power to have this unlimited amount of potential.
In other words, you will have absolute and total freedom! To use the phrase, “will have” is actually incorrect. The truth is you already “have” these natural gifts.
Inner strength is actually interchangeable with the phrase “intense desire.” Once you make a decision and back it with an intense and unwavering desire to accomplish and achieve no matter the obstacles or the commitment required…you will become all you truly deserve to be!
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How Do You Define Success? (video)
”Do not allow anyone to tell you what success is…because success is like beauty and is in the eye of the beholder!”~ Lisa Kitter
What is success? How do you define it in regards to your home based business? These are questions that every home-business owner ponders on…. really how you define it matters most to you.
Like beauty, how success is defined is definitely in the eye of the beholder.
As promised, I have a special video about success that I want to share with you today.
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So what are your thoughts? How do you define success? Please share your thoughts in the comment box below.
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