Is It Time To Reinvent Yourself?
“If you’re going to stick around in this business, you have to have the ability to reinvent yourself, whether consciously or unconsciously.” ~ D. Quaid.
I would ask you to think about reinventing yourself beginning right now! How do you reinvent yourself? You begin today to take a good look within at your true self. The “you” that even you may have forgotten all about!
While pursuing your fitness, professional and personal goals you will discover many things about yourself and you will unearth many of your so called, “short comings.” Instead of focusing on those qualities you may not like about yourself, I’m suggesting that you reinvent you! Go within and look for the many gifts you possess…gifts you may have long since forgotten about or you may have even down played those gifts because they made you unique. Perhaps feeling unique made you uncomfortable or caused you to be ridiculed and laughed at or teased by others.
Well, guess what… today is your day to shine! Today as you begin to communicate with people in your family, community or even in your professional life I would like you to be who you truly desire to be! Have you always wished you were a better communicator? Today you are instantly a better communicator because you’re making a new decision about your communication skills! Today you are an excellent communicator and people really understand what you’re saying and sharing with them.
As you’re connecting with others, imagine that you have the gift of gab! You know exactly what to say and when to say it. You’re eloquent and articulate, you have a style of communicating that causes people to sit up and take notice. They pay attention to you, as never before, in a nutshell, when you speak, people listen!
Have you been shy in the past? No more are you shy. Today is your day to step way out of your comfort zone and be heard! This is your life and you believe in yourself and you know you have something special to offer others. You’re the leader they have been dreaming of meeting, the one person who can and will show them a better way of life, a life worth living. Suddenly you are no longer shy; you’re a powerful, magnetic and charismatic person that gains attention and followers wherever you go!
This is your moment in history and your time to be whatever and whomever you choose!
Reinventing yourself is easy, it’s fun and best of all…it can be profitable! When you decide to be the, “you” that you have always desired to be, you automatically become more appealing to others. For one thing, you’re authentic and believable. Stepping into your personal power is quite possibly the one outstanding gift you can do for yourself and to yourself for immediate success! Sounds easy because it is easy. It’s a conscious choice, a decision only you can make. Playing small will not serve you in this world. Why not decide to let go of the insecurities and old, outdated, “not good enough” recordings going on in your head? Today is your day to feel good, and to shine with that newfound healthy self-esteem!
Becoming healthier and making a new commitment to live life to the fullest is an opportunity for you to take on the leadership role, to be an example of what is possible when a new choice or choices are made. You get to be someone that others desire to align with in business and in life. This is a great time for you to shed the old you and step into the new, improved you! The real you!
Relax, have fun and reinvent yourself for success!
REINVENTING YOURSELF EXERCISE
If I weren’t afraid I would be more ___________________________________________________________
Today is my new beginning and I will no longer fear
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The qualities I most admire in myself are ____________________________
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I feel most confidant and self assured when I am wearing _______________
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And when I am doing____________________________________________
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When I am being _____________________________________________
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The last time I can remember feeling really powerful was when I was______
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I will reinvent myself today and from now on I am ___________________
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No matter what happens today I choose to feel _____________________
About myself!
The person I most admire is ____________________ because he/she is _________________________________________________________
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“My happiness, my health and my life are my responsibility and I am more than capable and a powerful person!”
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Forgive And Forget
It’s time to release.. and learn how to forgive and forget.
Has there ever been a time in your life that someone has wronged you, treated you unfairly or hurt your feelings? I know most of you will say, “of course, who hasn’t had that type of experience at some point in time?” Have you held grudges against the people whom you felt treated you unjust or have you let it all go? I ask because it is interesting and a little disturbing to me when I hear adults place blame on their circumstances and past experiences and make them justifications as to why they are or aren’t further along in life.
Please don’t take me the wrong way, I don’t condone mistreating anyone and I don’t think that it’s okay to victimize others. The act itself isn’t what I’m questioning, instead, I am questioning the after effect of the experience and I’m wondering if it’s being used as a tool to hold anger and resentment within you. I admit that I’ve never been a holder of grudges. I’ve been hurt, disappointed and broken hearted however I think I was born the eternal optimist because I simply don’t let those things get me down. And if they do bother me, they don’t get me down for long.
I recently read an article in a woman’s magazine about how anger and the unwillingness to forgive is a contributing factor to all types of diseases, from cancer to heart disease. Wow, when we hold a grudge or dwell on another person with anger and resentment…it hurts us even more! We become toxic from the inside out and the toxic thoughts have a long term, detrimental effect on our health and well being. Not anywhere in the article that I read did it say that our angry thoughts cause the person we’re angry at to suffer, instead our angry thoughts cause us to suffer even more. Okay, it’s time to let it go and move on with your life!
Confucius said, “To be wronged is nothing unless you continue to remember it”
Take this statement and repeat it several times each day upon waking in the morning and before falling asleep at night. “I forgive ______________ for ________________ and I forgive myself for holding this anger for so long.” “Today I am free from all anger and hurt.”
Have you forgiven yourself for past mistakes? I don’t hold grudges directed towards others but I have been known to get very upset with myself for making a mistake. Can you relate? I have gotten so irritated with me for making bad decisions in love, business, and in life. I am constantly reminding myself that the errors were all part of the lessons and the journey which has led me to this wonderful place in my life.
If you find your anger is directed at yourself, take this statement and repeat it as often as possible. “I forgive myself for _________________ and I now release the anger and the pain associated with that experience.” “My mistakes are my lessons by which I grow from today and always.”
A great book to read on the power of forgiveness is by Louise Hay and is titled, You Can Heal Your Life. This book is a classic on the correlation between anger and poor mental and physical health. She offers some wonderful affirmations and exercises to release the anger or pain associated with a life experience or painful action caused by another person or even by you.
I love the saying, “have attitudes of gratitude to make your life brighter and happier!”
Over the years I have been angry and disappointed by an incident or by something that didn’t happen for me however years later I see the beauty of the situation and I am grateful for it. For instance, when I first decided to become a full time entrepreneur I struggled and I went flat broke (emotionally and physically) in pursuit of my goals. It was a painful and humbling experience for me to go through and yet, years later I look back with gratitude for those lean years of hardship. If I hadn’t struggled, I wouldn’t be the successful life coach that I am today. How would I identify with my frustrated coaching clients had I breezed right through and created an abundant business right out of the gate?
Sometimes when we’re in the moment of the challenge, it doesn’t appear to be anything we could possibly be grateful for and yet, if we can hold on for a couple of years…the gift is often revealed. Another for instance is a situation of the heart which occurred for me several years ago. I loved, I lost and I was hurt from the experience. It took me awhile to get over that heartbreak and now I look back and I could just kiss the man who broke my heart! Thank God he was a dud and moved on because shortly after him, I met my now fiancé John and trust me, he was worth the wait! Had I not gone through the darkness, I may never have experienced the bright sunshine I live in today.
Let go of the past and live in the now. Now is where the living is…not yesterday or even tomorrow. Now is the time to forgive, forget, be grateful and live your life. Look back with compassion on any situations which caused you pain. Did any good come of the past experience or can you see the gift of the incident today? Are you better, stronger, and a more determined person because of your life mistakes?
Will you let the past go so that you may be healthier, happier and more successful today?
You deserve the joy of forgiveness. If it’s painful and making you sick…forget about it! (Use strong Italian accent when saying that last sentence) 
Join Lisa every Monday at 2:00 pm (Eastern Time) for 30 minutes of learning, empowerment & fun on her “Power Up With Lisa” live radio talk show.
Lisa’s special guest are women, just like you, and they have each accomplished balance, harmony, financial profits and peace of mind, while doing the work they love!
You won’t want to miss a single show but if you do…all of Lisa’s power up radio shows are archived and available for easy playback 24 hours per day.
I’d love to hear your thoughts. So please share your comments below in the comment box for our community.
I look forward to sharing again with you very soon. By the way, if you haven’t find out why you deserve to own The Smart Girl’s Guide To Home Business Success. Click here to find out more.
Until we meet again – I believe in you!
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